It’s important to end the relationship as soon as possible for your safety and well-being.
Deciding to end a relationship is a personal and often difficult decision. While every relationship is different, there are certain behaviors that may indicate that it’s time to move on, and believe me, this is not me being sexist or discriminatory towards women.
Listen, I have been there when I can’t quite tell whether a woman I was going out with was really interested or she was just stringing me along. I mean like, one day she blows hot, the next day she blows cold, I have to decipher if she was wasting my time or keep trying.
Here are 6 things I looked out for.
She takes her time in getting back.
If a woman is really interested in you, she’ll be looking out to read from you, to hear from you to receive your call. And if she misses it, she’ll be in a hurry to get back to you and make sure that you know that she genuinely missed your call.
I know we live in a busy world, and you may not always have the chance to pick up calls or reply to a message, but I think a good rule of thumb is at least 24 hours.
If within 24 hours of reaching out to a girl or saying whatever it is that you have to say, maybe you’re checking up on them and they haven’t gotten back to you. It usually means that they’re not that interested. A woman may be busy, she may have lots to do, but trust me, if she is interested in you, she will get back to you as soon as she has a moment.
She cancels plans repeatedly.
This is like one big red flag. So you ask her out for dinner on Monday. She agrees. Then last minute, she tells you something came up.
Then you ask her out for dinner or lunch on Wednesday, and once again, she agrees but cancels last minute because something came up. Now, if you realize that you’re able to draw a pattern where every time you’re supposed to hang, she’s unavailable pretty much. And this is like a ridiculously continuous thing, chances are that she’s not interested, period! She can’t always be that busy. Take it from me. I have been there.